The Power of Reciprocity: Q&A Session
Beyond Bulletproof By Evy Poumpouras
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About this Class
Because we’ve come to expect others to return favors or repay obligations, those who don’t adhere to this norm stand out. These are the people we consider selfish, socially inept, and untrustworthy. But at times, these labels can be wrongly attached if the expected payback seems out-of-place or excessive. On more than a few occasions, the line between satisfying a debt and being taken advantage of can blur, causing us to do or say things we normally wouldn’t. Or shouldn’t.
What You'll Learn
Reciprocity is not about exactness nor is it absolute. When someone positively reciprocates, the return should be a mutual investment in the relationship. Conversely, when the payback is about serving justice, the response – if needed – should be purposeful and precise. Too often, however, it’s the reprisal that leads to prolonged pain, anger, and stress. Because we tend to feel the need to one-up whomever it was that wronged us. To teach them a lesson, which only leads to more conflict.
In this Q&A session, we’ll talk about the pros and cons of responding when we’ve been offended, how to let go of the frustration that comes with feeling used, and the best and most effective way to employ a response, when necessary.
“There is one word which may serve as a rule of practice for all one’s life – reciprocity.”
— Confucius
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